>A lot of male conversation is silent.
No it isn't! Men need to talk about their feelings just as much as women! There isn't some major difference in how we handle emotions!
We are all human, and humans are emotional creatures.
So many men need to Grow the Fuck Up and realize that being vulnerable is not the same as being weak. You need to be talking to your friends or confidants about your feelings.
>To feel otherwise is not "masculine"
Wrong. If you need to project a constant air of competence and stoicism and power, you are insecure and emotionally stunted.
I blame media honestly. Watch what women protagonists in American media do compared to male protagonists. Watch how male characters just do not talk through their feelings and emotions to other men, except as essentially a crisis point. Watch as women characters are much more likely to talk about how they felt about something.
Meanwhile, outside the US, male characters are allowed to have feelings. The Doctor is an insanely emotional man, full of complicated feelings that he is constantly having to face, and yet is portrayed as a man of immense power and prestige.
What male role model to American men have that portrays emotional development as a good and important thing?
> Men need to talk about their feelings just as much as women! There isn't some major difference in how we handle emotions!
You are categorically wrong. In fact, you couldn’t be further from the truth.
Men process emotions differently than women do. A real, biological difference. There is a reason why men don’t cry at the end of titanic. And to imply men are somehow emotionally stunted because they don’t emote like a woman does, is not only wrong but is harmful.
> vulnerable is not the same as being weak
Go read a dictionary. Showing vulnerability is the same thing as showing weakness and society shuns and shames weak men. There are reasons for that, and men have every incentive not to show weakness.
> No it isn't! Men need to talk about their feelings just as much as women! There isn't some major difference in how we handle emotions!
Yes there is. It isn't some societal thing either. It's ingrained deeply in biology. Saying men just need to be like women is asking them to go against their nature.
> Men need to talk about their feelings just as much as women! There isn't some major difference in how we handle emotions!
I... I've never heard this before, and it is in stark contrast to decades of my personal experience.
> You need to be talking to your friends or confidants about your feelings.
What do you mean "need to"?