kimos • 6 days ago

I agree and relate to this. Friend take work to maintain.

The friends that persist beyond what you describe are because we invent some shared project to work on together. Really doesn’t matter what it is.

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throwaway2037 • 4 days ago 

    > Friend take work to maintain.
At all stages of my life, I have put in much more effort than the other side to maintain friendships. Eventually, they all fade away with distance. It is brutal. I am convinced: It is me, not them.

    > we invent some shared project to work on together
Can you give some examples?