Have you tried going to partner dancing events? That’s where I met my wife. Contra dance, swing dance, etc. There’s usual more women than men in my experience, and you get to be a hero for saving the wallflowers from being wallflowers.
I did it for fifteen years and am quite accomplished. Traveled the world for it and done everything you can imagine.
It was pretty damn useless cause I’m just not physically attractive even after multiple surgeries, spending time lifting, wearing nice tailored clothes, etc. Dancing is also nowhere near as mainstream or popular as it was 10+ years ago in the US. I gave up on it overall because the communities are no longer full of fun people. More men than women in most communities I’ve been in as well.