nkrisc 6 days ago

Sometimes men just want to hang out with other men. I’m a straight man who usually gets along better with women than men, but I still also like spending time with just other men as well. It’s just different. I have no doubt that my presence in a group of women changes the dynamic.

There needs to be some place men can just spend time with other men. Yes, it’s a problem if those men only places become important to business or politics such that it disadvantages women, but there’s got to be something else instead, then.

Women should also have places where they can be together without men.

And there should be a majority of places where men and women can spend time equally.

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meheleventyone 6 days ago

> There needs to be some place men can just spend time with other men.

This is literally anytime, anywhere though. Do just not meet up with their friends? You can go to dinner, get drinks, go hiking, play sports, bike, ski, sunbathe, play videogames and many more things in single-sex groups without raising an eyebrow. The real classic for men of a certain persuasion from a western cultural POV is golf right?

I think there's some strange cultural hangup I'm missing where the entire place needs to be single-sex.

degamad 6 days ago

> Do just not meet up with their friends?

What friends?

meheleventyone 6 days ago

Well that's a different issue. Are we really saying men can only make friends in single-sex environments because I think that is trivially untrue?

nkrisc 6 days ago

Why can’t there be some semi-public place where only men, or only women, or only whomever you choose, is allowed? Why can’t that exist?

What you described is unrelated. Yes, people can and do go out and do stuff.